I would agree that seeing people you know and love stricken with cancer affects how you view those people. Like you, I've seen people beat and be beaten by cancer and, as I grow older and the more I see it, the easier it is to see how strong people are who are battling cancer. I lost my father to cancer about 6 weeks ago. He battled it off and on for about 2 years. He thought he'd gotten past it and then it returned with reinforcements. There's no doubt in my mind that his strength and stubbornness gave him at least an extra year, and a pretty good year at that.
Cancer sucks and, while there's little that any single one of us can do to "end cancer," there are measures that each of us can take to help protect us from it. We can quit smoking, wear sunscreen, get mammograms and colonoscopies, regular checkups from our physicians, and do our own little self-checks for things that are a little unusual. And then, when something is a little off, go get checked out.
My father was 73 when diagnosed with colorectal cancer. He had never had a colonoscopy and, essentially, when he was diagnosed, it was all over. A colonoscopy at 50 (when we're supposed to get one) and regular checkups thereafter might have helped. His diagnosis prompted his brother, my uncle, to get himself checked out and, guess what...they found a tumor. It was much smaller than my father's and they were able to go in and get it, but that's because he went and did the colonoscopy.
No one wants to get mammograms or colonoscopies but I can tell you, cancer is a whole (expletive deleted) lot worse. Screenings and early detection can't save everybody and won't end cancer but, in many cases, they can give us years to spend with loved ones -- family and friends -- to travel, to see the world, to do all the things we want to do with this time we have on this planet.
I didn't mean to get on this roll but, since I'm here, that's my wish for everyone this holiday season, whether you're a regular or just drop by on occasion; whether you post all the time or just read and gather information. My wish for everyone this holiday season is to make a commitment to do something for yourself that helps to protect you from this abominable disease. Pledge to wear sunscreen, quit smoking, look for lumps where they shouldn't be, or get your colonoscopy so that you can enjoy many more holidays with those you love.