The NCAA has been rather arbitrary in the past about what constitutes a fan or representative of the program. Just buying a kid you know a hamburger is a violation unless you can demonstrate that you do this for others as well. The interpretation is so arbitrary that I have deliberately refrained from any discussion of any college athletic programs with anyone who might conceivably get a scholarship. There have been several questions asked by kids who did get D-1 scholarships, some of whom were recruited by OU. I have never discussed OU with any of them. I think it is best not to provide any opportunity to those who may wish to make some statement about the evil state of OU athletics, at least until I find some reason to think of the NCAA as logical, reasonable, or unbiased.