Norm,
Are you able to tell us exactly what these "I hate Sherri - She is a horrible person - OU enemies" wanted from OU that they did not get. Not by beating around the bush with sly and secret accusations, but with exact things (was it cash, cars, she would not give my daughter [or player] a scholarship, or what).
I lived in North Texas for many years and have known - very well - many very important North Texas coaches, teachers, administrators, etc. Not a single one of them hates Sherri or talks in the slightest way in a derogatory manner about her. In fact, they admire her and the way she runs the OU program.
So who are these people who think she is not worthy of coaching women's basketball players - at least those in their families, teams, clubs, etc?