Holy crap! I take a few days off and return to the message board equivalent of the Hatfield and McCoy feud. The only thing left is a full declaration of war, with muskets firing and bodies being riddled by bullets.
Seriously, guys? Do you hate each other that much? You're both great posters with a lot to offer. Why not bury the hatchet and get back to talking about basketball? This needs to stop! Trust me when I say that nothing good can possibly be accomplished if you continue down the road you're on now.
Please, for the good of the board, end this here!
Ada, this is for you and Sam both. It is pretty easy to sit on the lofty perch and take pot shots at some one else's behavior. Sam is especially adept at that.
This isn't my message board or WT's message board or any other poster's message board. Those with the tagline of Administrator, it is your message board and your responsibility. My suggestion would be for your group to take ownership and take responsibility.
This flare up isn't a new deal. It is a 2 yr old deal. You may or may not agree with my perception of events. That doesn't matter. They are my perceptions and that is all I have to work with.
It is my perception and my opinion that I was treaty poorly by a small handful of message board heavy heads when I first started. The name calling and mean spirited personal insults, to me, seemed to be in violation of your own posted rules. I can be a bit of an a**hole and content to fight my own battles without the aid of the referees and no matter the rules.
If you guys want to step in now and start refereeing, fine, that is your job. My suggestion would be that those that are suppose to be referees do their job from the opening whistle. Applying your own posted rules evenly and fairly to everyone every time is the solution to this problem. How can me or even WT know where the line is if that line is always a moving target.
I have harped on this before and none of your group seem to want to address it. You guys have the numbers and you know this. During the season upwards to 1000 people log on to this site on a typical day. Only a small percentage of those people every participate. Have you ever asked yourself why?
I have given you the answer. They don't want to expose themselves to the abuse of a few. You have a group that seems to take pride in running people off the message board. I'm pretty hard to run off and I'll just respond in kind. Most people aren't like that. They just keep quite.
If you two perceive your job to drop in, to scold, finger point, and re-stripe the behavior line, I applaud you. You are doing a great job. My suggestion would be that you take control of the message board, insist on the behaviors that grow the board and make it a better place for all that want to participate.
In the words of Dennis Miller, "that is just my opinion, I could be wrong".