Totally different situation. Bomar's deal was setup by a donor/booster, not an assistant coach. Had an assistant coach been involved, Stoops would have canned him too (IMO).
This is a situation where the assistant coach is either doing something he was told to do, which is Jeff's fault, or he is doing something on his own which is also Jeff's fault because he should know what his coaches are doing (IMO).
Merv Johnson was sending guys to BRI for work; not the same as an "assistant coach" but certainly a part of OU's athletic program. Not going to defend either Coach O or Jeff in this situation, because for now all I have seen is that a guy resigned...I'll let the facts come out before I ask for any head's to roll.