You want a top private academic school then go to one of these private schools:
Harvard, Yale, Pinceton, Penn, Cornell, Columbia, Brown, Dartmouth, Stanford, Duke, Northwestern, MIT and a few others that don't include Tulsa. Tulsa isn't special. Nobody outside of Oklahoma cares about Tulsa.
You want a top public school go to: Michigan, UCLA, Cal, Washington, North Carolina, Virginia, the military academies and a few others. Tulsa isn't better than those schools either. Please note that I did not include Oklahoma on the list. I do believe OU is a substantially better school than Tulsa but that is just my opinion. The rest of the country really has no opinion on the issue.
You want value for your dollar in the State of Oklahoma go to OU or OSU. Going to Tulsa is a sign of poor decision making. It is illogical to pay the increased tuition at Tulsa, TCU, Baylor, Denver, and most other private schools because they simply are not any better than the public schools available at a fraction of the cost. Now the tuition is probably well spent at an Ivy League School or one of those other schools I mentioned. If you get a degree from Harvard, virtually every educated person you meet will be impressed. If you get a degree from Tulsa people won't know a darn thing about it or really care one way or another. It simply isn't an elite school.
I just sent my son to Tulsa, and we did some serious evaluation before making that choice. There are a lot of things happening there right now, and there are a lot of opportunities there not available at OU/OSU. Anyway, if you think there aren't advantages to attending TCU & Baylor you are fooling yourself. You are also fooling yourself that an Ivy League school is worth the money - for many majors it isn't (can't earn your investment back).