My wife and I, and mom and dad went to the OU football game there in '12. Before we arrived I had preconceived notions and fears that i'd get kidnapped by a cartel, or get hit by a bullet sitting in the stadium. Not really but kind of. I did think that it would be a dump of a town.
Boy was I wrong. We enjoyed our entire time there, from our very nice but affordable hotel to being able to actually walk on the field from the parking lot an hour and half before the game. We drove up into some neighborhoods in some hills with some beautiful overlooks. Of course, it was September and hotter than Hades.
It was MUCH nicer than I thought. We ate at some incredible restaurants, one that bragged about being in New Mexico, Texas, and Mexico. There was a nice mall and some very nice, clean shopping retail centers where we were. It seemed to be pretty safe, but at certain spots on the road that ran along the border the Mexican side was RIGHT THERE and you could see all the shanties and poverty. So close if somebody wanted to take a shot....
I'm not sure if i'd ever want to live all the way out there, but like others have said I love that type of terrain and I like West Texas. El Paso way surpassed my expectations...