Just going to assume you were drunk when you wrote this.
Never heard the term "selfish" to describe someone who chooses to not go to an athletic event. People can have any reason not to go, and you know what, that is their decision. Seriously, OU has been God awful the past few years and to the uninformed basketball fan (which is 90% of OU fans), this team hasn't done anything to change that. Until there are marks in the win column, things will stay the same. Sorry, but going to a crappy arena and not being entertained is not going to attract many students when there are a hundred other things to fill their time...whether they are legitimate or not is not up to you, even though it sounds like you think it is.
I agree the attendance is embarrassing but for people to sit on their high horse and talk down to donors, students, whomever about getting their ass to the LNC is pretty comical when this program has floundered in obscurity since 2009. The program hasn't done their part, why should the fanbase be held to a higher standard? That doesn't mean people like Sooner_in_MI shouldn't get out the good word and rejuvenate support, but results need to be taken in the proper context.