When was the last time you lived in OKC?
Here is a calculator that shows if you make $500k in OKC, you would need to make $840k in NYC to keep the same life style
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When was the last time you lived in NYC?
Does that calculator factor in that the individual is a collegiate athlete on full scholarship with housing, clothing, medical, food and so on all fully (partially at the very least) covered? The major difference in that calculation was housing and even if he lives in an apartment and not campus housing, he'll get help with his rent from the university, just as athletes do at OU.
He likely won't own a car (millions of New Yorkers don't). If he does, he's not going to be driving it every day. And he'll be well able to afford a hybrid or fully electric vehicle. So you can drop gas as a key factor in the equation.
The notion that state and local taxes are going to be front of mind for a 20-year-old student-athlete who's getting nearly everything paid for PLUS a six-figure salary is, I have to say, LOL-worthy (that may be my first LOL on this board--it's not a term I use. Congrats!)
And if he's drawn to NYC itself (that is, if he's not just chasing the money), then talking about lifestyle is pointless. Life here is very different from Norman/OKC. Whether it's better or worse is subjective and up to the individual, but a "lifestyle" calculator can't begin to factor in the differences that exist in lifestyle between the two cities.