Prayers for a loyal Sooner

Thanks, everyone. His heart is working well but not his kidneys. We’re praying for a turnaround in that area, and soon.
 
I'm sorry to have to share the news that we said goodbye to my father today. He was a bright light in the life of everyone he encountered, especially his family and close friends. He loved deeply and was deeply loved and set a great example for us all to follow.

I've never known a more unselfish man than Dad. I can't think of a single example where he put his own wishes, his own preferences, before others. He was deeply devoted to my mother, my three siblings and I, his seven grandchildren and his 10 great-grandchildren. He was wanted, first and foremost, what was best for each of us, what would make us happy.

His years spent caring for my mother during her long battle with Alzheimer's were truly inspiring. His patience was endless, his devotion untiring, and he cared for her until, in her final months, there was simply no other choice but to place her in a facility with fulltime care, and even then he visited her twice a day every throughout those six months.

The greatest lesson Dad ever taught me, and it was with his actions more than his words, was the importance in being a gentle man. He had not a hint of the bully in him. He taught us to value the courage of compassion, the dignity of openly expressed affection, the gift of a tear, whether shed in joy or sadness. He was never afraid to express his emotions, and made sure his children weren't either.

And he lived and died with our Sooners.

If I'm ever half the man he was, I'll be proud.

He was an anchor for me, and I'm bereft at losing him, but I'm grateful that, once we realized it was time to say goodbye, the end came very quickly. That confirmed for us that he was ready to go.

Hug someone you love today and tell them how much they mean to you. It's something Dad did often, and you could pay no greater tribute to a good and decent man, even if you never met him, than to do so.

Thanks again for your prayers and support. I am very grateful.
 
Oh, no! Not the news I wanted to hear, Sky!

Your father was obviously a fine man who was loved by everyone who knew him. It’s easy to see why you were so proud of him. I felt the same way about my father who was 92 when he passed, so I have a sense of what you must be feeling right now. It’s never easy to lose someone you love, but I think we can be grateful that our fathers had a long and fruitful life.

My deepest sympathies and my prayers are on the way to you, my friend!

Ada
 
skyvue said:
I'm sorry to have to share the news that we said goodbye to my father today. He was a bright light in the life of everyone he encountered, especially his family and close friends. He loved deeply and was deeply loved and set a great example for us all to follow.

I've never known a more unselfish man than Dad. I can't think of a single example where he put his own wishes, his own preferences, before others. He was deeply devoted to my mother, my three siblings and I, his seven grandchildren and his 10 great-grandchildren. He was wanted, first and foremost, what was best for each of us, what would make us happy.

His years spent caring for my mother during her long battle with Alzheimer's were truly inspiring. His patience was endless, his devotion untiring, and he cared for her until, in her final months, there was simply no other choice but to place her in a facility with fulltime care, and even then he visited her twice a day every throughout those six months.

The greatest lesson Dad ever taught me, and it was with his actions more than his words, was the importance in being a gentle man. He had not a hint of the bully in him. He taught us to value the courage of compassion, the dignity of openly expressed affection, the gift of a tear, whether shed in joy or sadness. He was never afraid to express his emotions, and made sure his children weren't either.

And he lived and died with our Sooners.

If I'm ever half the man he was, I'll be proud.

He was an anchor for me, and I'm bereft at losing him, but I'm grateful that, once we realized it was time to say goodbye, the end came very quickly. That confirmed for us that he was ready to go.

Hug someone you love today and tell them how much they mean to you. It's something Dad did often, and you could pay no greater tribute to a good and decent man, even if you never met him, than to do so.

Thanks again for your prayers and support. I am very grateful.
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You can tell just from this that he raised you right and just in that he was a great dad and person. Prayers with your fam
 
Terribly sorry for your loss, Sky. Best wishes to you and your family.
 
Replace the sadness with happiness and share that happiness with others, including me (made you chuckle!).
 
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skyvue said:
I'm sorry to have to share the news that we said goodbye to my father today. He was a bright light in the life of everyone he encountered, especially his family and close friends. He loved deeply and was deeply loved and set a great example for us all to follow.

I've never known a more unselfish man than Dad. I can't think of a single example where he put his own wishes, his own preferences, before others. He was deeply devoted to my mother, my three siblings and I, his seven grandchildren and his 10 great-grandchildren. He was wanted, first and foremost, what was best for each of us, what would make us happy.

His years spent caring for my mother during her long battle with Alzheimer's were truly inspiring. His patience was endless, his devotion untiring, and he cared for her until, in her final months, there was simply no other choice but to place her in a facility with fulltime care, and even then he visited her twice a day every throughout those six months.

The greatest lesson Dad ever taught me, and it was with his actions more than his words, was the importance in being a gentle man. He had not a hint of the bully in him. He taught us to value the courage of compassion, the dignity of openly expressed affection, the gift of a tear, whether shed in joy or sadness. He was never afraid to express his emotions, and made sure his children weren't either.

And he lived and died with our Sooners.

If I'm ever half the man he was, I'll be proud.

He was an anchor for me, and I'm bereft at losing him, but I'm grateful that, once we realized it was time to say goodbye, the end came very quickly. That confirmed for us that he was ready to go.

Hug someone you love today and tell them how much they mean to you. It's something Dad did often, and you could pay no greater tribute to a good and decent man, even if you never met him, than to do so.

Thanks again for your prayers and support. I am very grateful.
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Terribly sorry for your loss. If it's any consolation, it sounds like the legacy he leaves behind is one that we all hope for when our time comes.
 
Very sorry for your loss, Sky. What a great tribute. Prayers for your family.
 
I'm so sorry Sky. Your father sounds like he knew what a true man was and it sounds like you were very blessed with a great example of how to live life. God bless
 
Sorry for your loss, Sky...

Based on your description, sounds like all of us could learn a thing or two from him, especially a new father like me.

Best wishes to you and your family.
 
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I’m very sorry Sky. He sounds like someone we all aspire to be. I hope you can celebrate his life and legacy during this time of sorrow.
 
So sorry for your loss. Glad you and your family could be there with your father when it was time.
 
So sorry to hear! May all the great, wonderful memories comfort you and your family!
 
I'm very sorry for your loss, Skyvue. Any Sooner anywhere can appreciate the symmetry of a life well-lived when the final breaths are taken at the age of 89. A true 89er he will now always be.

May your heart be forever warmed by the memories.
 
I'm very sorry for your loss. Your words tell me that you were very fortunate to have a Dad like that. And remember, you are just like him.
 
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