I'm neither fat nor "derpy," and definitely not a Kansan (I do admit to being old), but I too would be offended if I took my family to what was billed as a basketball event and witnessed the "entertainment" that's been described.
If that makes me backwards and scary, so be it.
I genuinely don't know the answer, so these are just questions, but wasn't this one of those midnight events? From what I've heard, they held this event at the very end, so are we talking about a Snoop Dogg concert at 2 or 3 AM? I wouldn't take my family to that, even if it was billed as basketball-related.