This is ridiculous. Where I come from, which is in the south, f word is definitely not the first interpretation for a derogatory 6 letter curse word ending in "er", especially if directed at a black person. So whether you people like it or not, there are at least 2 ways to read it. And like I said one of them is bad. I never said I thought he meant that word. In fact I didn't think he meant that, that's why I didn't get mad, I just mentioned it would be a good idea to provide more clarity than a few asterixes like that in the situation. In context it's pretty easy to interpret it the way I did at first whether meant that way or not, and I'll guarantee if you polled our team or KSU's basketball team at least one person would read it that way, even if only for a split second like I did.
Maybe my experiences give me a completely different worldview from everyone else on this board. But it's definitely not beyond imagination, so stop acting like I'm from another f***ing planet. See that wasn't so hard.