Sherri accused of racism

Just read full text of Sherri’s comments and Joe’s and I have to give Sherri credit here. She basically admitted the players words were true and that she erred and was thoughtless on these occasions.

Whether the Mae Culpa has an impact that the revelations did or not will take time to determine.

We all know, however, other coaches are going to use this to kill Sherri in recruiting.

So, even with the apology and hopeful acceptance, this is still going to hurt.

Also, interestingly, was the way Joe framed his defense. Reading between the lines there what I got is a foreshadowing that Sherri is not going anywhere soon and OU isn’t going to make her.

So, unless she steps up and steps aside, we are stuck with her for the next 4 years.

I guess that settles it then. We are doomed to crappy teams and lousy records for the foreseeable future.

Maybe the soccer team will be worth watching. And there’s always softball.


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Joe C needs to get everyone together. See if things can be put to rest. If not, he needs to ask Coale to retire. Then begin a search. Since this is a COVID-19 year. It might give a new coach time to recruit some players. I still think with a quality big. OU can move up behind Baylor and Texas. Which would give them a winning season and a tournament invite. Then they can build from that.
 
Joe C needs to get everyone together. See if things can be put to rest. If not, he needs to ask Coale to retire. Then begin a search. Since this is a COVID-19 year. It might give a new coach time to recruit some players. I still think with a quality big. OU can move up behind Baylor and Texas. Which would give them a winning season and a tournament invite. Then they can build from that.


Bingo!!!
 
It seems like ages since Sherri recruited a decent big. However, having Kareem Abdul Jabbar wouldn't matter if the team turns the ball over repeatedly. I doubt that Sherri will be able to recruit at all now. The word must have already been out there because it has been in great decline for a while. They are getting whipped for players in state now.

The bottom line is that women's basketball changed and Sherri has not. It is an athletes' game now. Mulkey was most likely right when she said, "“In women’s basketball, once you lose it, you’re not getting it back ... I can name some in this league that are struggling to get it back that have won championships.” Sherri will never compete for the Big 12 title again.

As for Joe, he is proving that he does not care about women's basketball. He would pull the plug on just about every other coach on campus in this situation.
 
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I think that Joe should just let this seethe for awhile. His response need to be noncommittal. Let the momentum build to the point that some of Sherri's donor supporters finally cave and agree that something needs to be done.
 
Many keep saying she has big donor supporters. Who? Or are you just assuming she has high dollar supporters? If they are giving big money why wouldn't they expect to see a good product on the floor for their money? I know I would. Big football donors certainly expect results, why wouldn't these mysterious basketball donors? Outside the Nobles who help to build facilities, who would give money to women's basketball to watch it decline?
 
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https://www.espn.com/womens-college...s-ex-players-say-program-racially-insensitive

Oklahoma women's basketball coach Sherri Coale apologized Sunday after some former Black players wrote on social media over the weekend that they felt there was an atmosphere of racial insensitivity in her program.

On Friday, former Sooners player Gioya Carter responded to a photo of Oklahoma football coach Lincoln Riley speaking out on police violence in the Black community after the Sooners football team marched in solidarity. Carter, who played at Oklahoma from 2013 to '17, tweeted, "I wish I knew what it felt like to have a head coach at OU like this but instead my 4yrs there was filled with comments like. 'You guys act like it happened to you.' 'If y'alls long braids hits one of my players in the face' as if the ppl in braids weren't her players."

At least eight other former Sooners have since posted messages of support for Carter on social media, with many sharing their own experiences.

Coale and Oklahoma athletic director Joe Castiglione both released statements Sunday night.

"To hear the concerns raised by my former student-athletes is disheartening, because it is clear that I have unknowingly caused harm to people I care deeply about," said Coale, who is white. "Over my career, I have taken pride in the work that I have done on the court and the commitment to the personal growth of the women I've been responsible for leading. While I have always had the intent of expressing care for others, it is clear that there have been moments where my intent has not been the same as my impact -- for that, I sincerely apologize."

Coale, 55, has been the Sooners' coach since the 1996-97 season, and has led Oklahoma to the Women's Final Four three times (2002, '09 and '10). Under Coale, Oklahoma has won six Big 12 regular-season titles and four conference tournament titles.

The Sooners' 19-year run of NCAA tournament appearances ended in 2019 after they finished 8-22. This past season, Oklahoma went 12-18. Those losing records were the first for Coale since her first two seasons at the school.

"When these matters were raised by former members of the women's basketball program, we were obviously concerned," Castiglione said. "Though we were unaware of the reported concerns of insensitivity in the women's basketball program prior to the comments that were posted in the last few days, we are committed to listening.

"Throughout her 24 years of collegiate coaching, Coach Coale has demonstrated tremendous character and a consistent record of advocating for her student-athletes. I know Coach Coale -- along with the rest of the women's basketball program leadership -- joins me in eagerly availing ourselves to further engage in these important conversations."

Former Sooner Shaina Pellington, the Big 12 Freshman of the Year in 2018 who transferred to Arizona in 2019, posted a lengthy message on Twitter on Sunday saying she would "not stay silent."

"So many of us student athletes fear to speak our minds on the injustices we face within our respective communities, campuses, locker rooms, etc.," Pellington wrote. "You ask us things like, why didn't we say anything sooner? Why didn't we speak up when we had the chance? Why, NOW? We fear for our futures, we fear for our life's work because of the backlash we might face from the people of higher power. We tell you guys our stories and you don't believe us."

Another former Sooner who transferred from the program after two seasons spoke to ESPN on condition of anonymity. She said she did not want to harm Coale or her career, but feels that she lacks some understanding of Black culture. The player told of a visit the Oklahoma team made to the Monticello plantation when the Sooners were playing in Charlottesville, Virginia. She said she and a Black teammate were discussing the former slave quarters at Thomas Jefferson's home, and then posted a photo of it on social media. She said Coale wanted the post removed.

"How could she yell at me for something like this when she took us there?" the player said. "It was all very crushing for me that people that looked like me went through this. How could she not see the difference of perception that there was by taking your mainly Black basketball team to a plantation? She is a great speaker and a good ball coach, but her program needs reform."

In her statement, Coale said, "For several years, I've made a concerted effort to educate myself and my players about how we can, together, create and sustain an environment in which all feel welcome and at home -- a part of our women's basketball family. While our past and present efforts in support of inclusion are ones I am proud of, I also know I should not assume that our learning and growth is ever finished.

"I am committed to working with my staff and my players toward continual growth. I want to ensure that any of my words or actions reflect my values, and the love I have for my student-athletes is shown in the knowledge I impart on them every day."

Chelsea Dungee, who played her freshman season at Oklahoma before transferring to Arkansas, tweeted Sunday, "This is not a political issue for those who seem to be confused. Instead, this is an issue regarding lack of support, racism, inequalities, lack of effective communication, abuse of power, and choice."

Former Oklahoma player LaNesia Williams, who was with the Sooners from 2014 to '18, wrote in a Facebook post directed at other players: "What's so evident is the division amongst us in all of this, and it's truly disheartening to see it show at a time like this. It's interesting that the white players share a completely different experience than the Black players.

"The funny thing about it is that you say all those great things to back her but not one of you are able to say that you have witnessed her support her Black student athletes on issues of racial injustice that affect us and our livelihood every single day. That's what this is about at the end of the day. It's about choosing to turn a blind eye to Black issues and choosing to remain ignorant on racial issues and Black life. Choosing not to get involved when players that you claim to love are steadily suffering. Loving us until it's time to get 'uncomfortable.'"

Morgan Coale, who played at Oklahoma and is now married to Sherri's son, defended the coach in a Facebook post Sunday night, writing, "The Sherri Coale I know is there for her players beyond basketball. Even when she is no longer coaching them she has reached out and gotten them job interviews, or a foot in the door with a dream profession and even helping out with families of her former players in any way she can."

She concluded the post, "I stand with Sherri Coale."

Similarly, former Sooners player Madeline Manning wrote that Sherri Coale "challenged me, showed me, pushed me, held me accountable, and loved me into developing a standard of excellence. It wasn't easy. It took work. Lots of work. But as I navigate through life I often find myself still thanking Sherri Coale. My path was altered for the better because of her heart."

Vionise Pierre-Louis, who finished her OU career in 2018, wrote on Facebook, "You can't stand for a movement like BLM yet praise/defend an offender and negate African American's experience. Listen. Learn. Lend a hand to help. Or just shut up please."

Castiglione said student-athletes at Oklahoma have multiple ways to discuss issues that concern them.

"We have avenues through which student-athletes can converse with coaches, administrators or confidentially and anonymously with our team of sports psychologists any time they want to bring a concern to our attention," he said, "and we actively seek their input. My hope is that we can move forward and work together in building greater understanding as we constantly strive to be better."
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Why didn't they transfer? Why is it coming out now? Why did they help recruit other black players? It seems to convenient to me. None of the old time players are on that list. Why would C Paris come back and coach with Coale.

Several did transfer. Similar to those who endure sexual assault, sometimes it is hard to realize the effects of something that happened to you, particularly when you don't know that others have experienced it too. For example, many people did not learn about microaggressions and other slights that have racist overtones. Please bear in mind that racism is a broad spectrum. There are far more egregious things than what Sherri is accused of. However, it doesn't make it insignificant. Just because one player doesn't feel like all of the other black players doesn't mean it isn't true. TF?
 
Regardless of whether you want to believe the players or not, the quality of the program has certainly declined. The racial composition of the team has changed, too. It doesn't explain everything, but the pieces do start to align. I am remembering Sybarite today and his forward thinking on the experiences of black players in Norman. He and I didn't agree on a lot related to basketball, but he was well-put in this regard. As the only black PhD student in my program at OU, as soon as I defended my dissertation, I moved out of Norman the next day. Again, it doesn't have to be overt, intentional racism to still qualify as racism.
 
It seems like ages since Sherri recruited a decent big. However, having Kareem Abdul Jabbar wouldn't matter if the team turns the ball over repeatedly. I doubt that Sherri will be able to recruit at all now. The word must have already been out there because it has been in great decline for a while. They are getting whipped for players in state now.

The bottom line is that women's basketball changed and Sherri has not. It is an athletes' game now. Mulkey was most likely right when she said, "“In women’s basketball, once you lose it, you’re not getting it back ... I can name some in this league that are struggling to get it back that have won championships.” Sherri will never compete for the Big 12 title again.

As for Joe, he is proving that he does not care about women's basketball. He would pull the plug on just about every other coach on campus in this situation.

Lmao :ez-roll:
 
Lmao :ez-roll:


I fully understand your chuckle as it matters not how good your big is if you cannot get him/her the ball. I too know that Speedy likely hit the nail on the head with all items of his post. Sadly Sherri is who Sherri is. That is not going to change.
 
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I fully agree with euphguy's sentiments.

No one is accusing Coach Coale of extreme, overt racism -- using racial slurs, identifying with the KKK, etc. But rather more subtle forms of racism (microagressions, not being willing to listen to their stories, denial, etc) that consistently made them feel like "others". It is very possible that these Black women who have spoken out would tell you that Coach Coale helped them become better basketball players, more professional women, more assertive people, better Christians, etc etc. But that doesn't negate that she did not attempt to understand their experience as Black women and made microaggressions that made them feel unsupported.

I am not a person of color, but I am a woman... In my first job out of college, I worked for a very small company run by a man who sexually harassed (with comments, "jokes" and microagressions) and psychologically abused me often. He ran a successful business, taught me about the corporate world and signed my checks, which I really needed. I was often uncomfortable, but he never directly touched me inappropriately and there was no one in the company I could talk to about it, so I just kept my head down and kept working.. until I finally spoke up after he threw a chair in my direction and was fired. It wasn't until years later, when I learned how a healthy working environment SHOULD be and heard the conversations surrounding the #MeToo movement, that I realized just how unsupported I was, particularly as a woman. Your brain does bizarre things to distract you from any level of trauma.

Over a dozen former players (some of whom never played together) have supported Gioya's statements. How could ALL of them be fabricating the same thing? Also, many of the older players from when this program was actually nationally relevant are not on social media.

Her apology was not sufficient IMO. Yes, she apologized and yes, she is incredibly gifted at the English language... but she did not say what she did wrong. She didn't say that she has let down her Black players. She must do better.
 
I fully agree with euphguy's sentiments.

No one is accusing Coach Coale of extreme, overt racism -- using racial slurs, identifying with the KKK, etc. But rather more subtle forms of racism (microagressions, not being willing to listen to their stories, denial, etc) that consistently made them feel like "others". It is very possible that these Black women who have spoken out would tell you that Coach Coale helped them become better basketball players, more professional women, more assertive people, better Christians, etc etc. But that doesn't negate that she did not attempt to understand their experience as Black women and made microaggressions that made them feel unsupported.

I am not a person of color, but I am a woman... In my first job out of college, I worked for a very small company run by a man who sexually harassed (with comments, "jokes" and microagressions) and psychologically abused me often. He ran a successful business, taught me about the corporate world and signed my checks, which I really needed. I was often uncomfortable, but he never directly touched me inappropriately and there was no one in the company I could talk to about it, so I just kept my head down and kept working.. until I finally spoke up after he threw a chair in my direction and was fired. It wasn't until years later, when I learned how a healthy working environment SHOULD be and heard the conversations surrounding the #MeToo movement, that I realized just how unsupported I was, particularly as a woman. Your brain does bizarre things to distract you from any level of trauma.

Over a dozen former players (some of whom never played together) have supported Gioya's statements. How could ALL of them be fabricating the same thing? Also, many of the older players from when this program was actually nationally relevant are not on social media.

Her apology was not sufficient IMO. Yes, she apologized and yes, she is incredibly gifted at the English language... but she did not say what she did wrong. She didn't say that she has let down her Black players. She must do better.

:clap:clap:clap...very well said.
 
Extremely well said. What will come of this, will Sherri “talk and listen” to all of the players, past and present?
 
Why didn't they transfer? Why is it coming out now? Why did they help recruit other black players? It seems to convenient to me. None of the old time players are on that list. Why would C Paris come back and coach with Coale.

1) why didn't they do it earlier? 2)why didn't they transfer? 3)Why did they recruit other Black players? 4) None of the old players on the list.

1) didn't do it earlier? Black Lives Matter and other movements giving them a voice, darned sure not going to do and then get kicked off the team
2 ) basketball was there way to an education. Maybe even pros, maybe careers I basketball. ...what would they gain by fighting the system alone....Black people are assaulted and killed by got officials on a daily basis, that is what racism in this country has been for overv400 years, they have to survive. ..and what if they transferred, who was to say it would be better, and you don't get to transfer on an annual basis..so you stick with the program younchose, often one you had wanted to play for your whole life
3) why recruit other Blackks, whose tons aye they didn't talk about the issues but wanted the players and no one could promise them a better experience
4 ) why no older players speaking out...I would say, give them time...plus, the older players were going to nationals and final four do Sherri might have been more careful.

PLUS, there wasn't as much racial tension until Obama was elected and then that bandaid that had been covering some of the racism got torn away. So Trevor Martin, others happen and all of a sudden whites taking side opposite than BLACKS...the Fact that Sherri said it didn't happen to you do why do you care...is the most hateful, wilfully ignorant thing she could have said. Some people are ignorant about race, I
believe Sherri was willfully ignorant. How long has she played sports? How long did she go to college in education? How long has she coached? The teams she won with she won because of Blacks? What were they..just players for her to succeed but she owed them nothing.
Finally, I don't think the game passed her by, she lucked in tons one good players AND she had Bo for an asst coach, then she had Courtney and that group..
and yet did you see Courtney improve. Many of her players did not get better. She did not develop them. Some developed themselves, others didn't and should have been developed by her. And if her assistants weren't good she should have gotten better...my gut tells me she liked things the way they were. Now, she has a Don who expected to take over her job and never will. He will be lucky to be an asst on a good team. I have a feeling he is not happy and this is not what he and Morgan planned. I don't blame him, I blame his parents. If it is true he kind of pushed Shaina Pellington down the court rushing her to the locker room, that is on him and he still needs suspended and sent to some type of rehab class.

Every white person here benefits from white privilege and for the benefit of blacks and our country, you need to wake up, if you aren't, and start reading some of the great books out now.

Courtney is here because she wants to coach and I think she had a good relationship with Sherri...
I mean she got her to the final four. More than that, the blatant racism was not as blatant at that time.
 
:clap:clap:clap...very well said.

Agreed she did not come close to saying what she needed to nor making it clear how egregious some of her behavior was. She did not address it specifically. "Why should you care if it didn't happen to you"? Are you KIDDING me? I know one of her older players who worries about her sons getting shot for just being Black. She doesn't seem the most political of people. Do you understand how Black parents have to worry about their kids getting wrongfully shot by police? Beaten up? Thrown in jail? Are you paying attention?
Why wouldn't we all care when injustice takes place.
I remember in 1986 (think that right date) an elderly Black man was threatening people with his weedeater in neighborhood in NE Okc. The police came....several...their only solution was to shoot and kill him. See that happening to a white man...no, they would have let him wear himself out. No one was in danger with them.there...no danger that they couldn't have alleviated.
 
Agreed she did not come close to saying what she needed to nor making it clear how egregious some of her behavior was. She did not address it specifically. "Why should you care if it didn't happen to you"? Are you KIDDING me? I know one of her older players who worries about her sons getting shot for just being Black. She doesn't seem the most political of people. Do you understand how Black parents have to worry about their kids getting wrongfully shot by police? Beaten up? Thrown in jail? Are you paying attention?
Why wouldn't we all care when injustice takes place.
I remember in 1986 (think that right date) an elderly Black man was threatening people with his weedeater in neighborhood in NE Okc. The police came....several...their only solution was to shoot and kill him. See that happening to a white man...no, they would have let him wear himself out. No one was in danger with them.there...no danger that they couldn't have alleviated.
Bad cops don't care what color one is...to them you're trash
 
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