I hope the first part is true, but I think there's a couple reasons for his thoughts towards OU. 1) he is guiding Trae through this college process and the NBA process. So for Ray, he needs to find the best way to get Trae the exposure and people who can help him get there. KU and UK obviously can help that exposure Ray is wanting more than OU can. 2) from everything I've understood, including what you said at the end, Trae and his mom both really like OU. So if that's the case, it wouldn't shock me to see his dad play devils advocate in terms of trying to get him to see something different and not continue to build up OU when your mom, your friends, etc. etc. all hype up OU for you. I'm sure he hears it every day "You can be the man at OU" or "You are going to take OU back to the top of the Big 12" from his friends in Norman. So it wouldn't shock me to see his dad understand that, and try and give Trae some prospective and help him see some cons to OU instead of all the pros.