I doubt that I have maximized my potential academically, professionally or as a parent. I'm imperfect. So how in the hell can I hold other people up to standards that i can'e meet myself?
All of you who have maximized your potential in every aspect of your life, feel free to feel disappointed in this season if we don't go as far as you arbitrarily think we should.
The idea that one has to be perfect to offer criticism is absolute nonsense. I, like everyone else, am evaluated by myself and others constantly in life. Sometimes I meet expectations, sometimes I exceed them, and sometimes I fall short. That's life.