Hi gm.
This post is a bit tongue in cheek so don't be offended. I for one appreciate your posts on this board and think you stay pretty balanced about events.
I appreciate your feeling about KM being the best choice since her team won the conference. The problem is that has never been the criteria. Bob Stoops won the conference in football time after time, but was coach of the year only a couple of those. And I do not recall any OU fans complaining about the years he did not. (There had to be some but I don't recall it). But the point is, he did not win it just because his team had the best record.
Sometimes the case for a claim can be shown to be weak by finding a counter example. Suppose one team plays UCONN 20 times and wins half. So they lose 10 times. Another university plays 20 high school teams and wins 17 of them. Would anyone make the case the 2nd coach was better than the first? You simply cannot use only the record to determine that. Probably the most critical factor is were they coaching players of the same caliber against about the same quality of competition? According to the same voters who selected COY, Baylor had the best player and 2 consensus 1st team members. OU had none.
I don't know who should have been COY and truthfully it doesn't matter. But there is no doubt Sherri had the hardest job. Others looking at the quality of her players said they were only good enough players to place 5th. She put them together and led them to 2nd place by 4 games ahead of 3rd. For goodness sakes, no OU player even won a single player of the week award during conference. Think about that. Not a single really outstanding player (according to the selectors) any week of the conference year - and yet her team finished 2nd by a landslide. Pretty impressive coaching I'd say.
Kim, on the other hand, was credited with the best players (pre-season) and was predicted to place 1st. She did, but even at that her team was struggling by the end of the regular season - a big surprise to most. Was it all her fault? Who knows? But the voters said her players were still the best in the league - so its pretty hard to put all the blame on them.